Health & Sexuality

Talking to Your Doctor About Sex and Heart Disease

Originally written for About.com by Corey Silverberg, December 1, 2009

Most doctors receive little or no training on how to talk about sex with patients who have heart disease or have survived a heart attack. Their training in human sexuality is often very basic, covering anatomy, disease, and dysfunction. It is rare for them to have learned much about sexual pleasure or the psychological and interpersonal experience and importance of sex. As a result, a lot of doctors won’t initiate conversations about sex with patients and do their best to avoid being asked questions about sex. This is particularly problematic when it comes to heart disease, a condition where one of the biggest obstacles to sex is getting accurate information.

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Sex in the Second Half of Life

Originally printed in the Harvard Medical Newsletter, June 2011

Sexuality is not just for the young. Results from a University of Chicago survey published in 2007 suggested that over half of Americans remain sexually active well into their 70s. That said, sexual activity does subside with age. Biological factors tug in that direction, as do social arrangements: older people, especially women, often end up single when a spouse or partner dies. But researchers at Indiana University report that 20% to 30% of long-lived Americans are sexually active into their 80s.

Sexual Activity in Older Adults

It wasn’t long ago that older people weren’t included in studies of sexual behavior because they were seen as largely irrelevant to the topic: 59 was the upper age limit of a landmark study of American sexuality conducted in the early 1990s. However, the University of Chicago survey focused exclusively on older adults, including just over 3,000 Americans ages 57 to 85. The results lent some legitimacy to the subject of sexuality of older people. Here are some of the main points:

Sexual activity tapers off with age. Both surveys show a decline in sexual activity with age, although the drop-off isn’t as steep as one might expect, and a significant minority (especially men) defies the trend. In the Indiana study, 35% of the men ages 80 and older reported that they had intercourse a few times or more in the past year. In the University of Chicago study, 38.5% of the men ages 75 to 85 reported having sexual activity with a partner in the previous year.

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Do Men Fake Orgasms?

Originally published in everydayhealth.com, by Madeline Vann, MPH, and medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Ever wonder if his “big O” was all a big show? Turns out, plenty of guys say they have faked an orgasm at least once. Here’s why.

If you think women are the only ones who bluff in the bedroom, think again: One in four men say they have faked an orgasm at some point in their sex lives.

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About Vacuum Therapy Devices

Vacuum Therapy Devices, or VTDs, have been available for a number of years as a treatment for erectile dysfunction (ED). The medical community recognizes that drugs are not appropriate for many men, and so the pendulum is swinging back toward more natural answers for impotence problems, and VTDs are a front-runner as they do not involve potentially harmful drugs or invasive medical procedures. With some exciting new technological advances and improvements, these systems are better than ever, and have been shown to be 90% effective for all causes of erectile dysfunction.

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Prostate Cancer Survivor Searches for Recovery Options

My name is John Marchello. I am a prostate cancer survivor and a designer of durable medical equipment. As such I have experienced a variety of things that may benefit you in selecting an option that can resolve your erectile dysfunction. In early October of 1999, I underwent a radical prostatectomy to remove a cancerous prostate. Upon recovery I regained urine control, but not erectile function.With a passion for life and thirty-plus years in medical equipment design I set about to buy, try and test every possible option to restore erectile function, with the exception of an implant.

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Regaining Intimacy After Prostate Surgery

A well-known common effect of prostate surgery or treatment is erectile dysfunction (of varying degrees and durations). A much less discussed effect is the marital disconnection that often accompanies it. Men faced with loss of their sexual functioning are barraged with a host of emotions including  grief, anger, depression, fear, uncertainty and confusion. Often added to these are a sense of shame and loss of self-esteem.

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